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17-Nov-2017 17:41

Obviously, there are some disadvantages to living here, chief among them cultural.I have few opportunities to experience large cultural events in Iowa (though there are many interesting small ones) and cultural trends often take a very long time to reach here.This doesn't necessarily mean modern marriages are happy marriages. But the divorce rate for first marriages is still about 47%.Having a happy marriage today means thinking of reasons to be together "From my perspective, the hardest thing is issues of commitment and trust," says Nock, who has followed couples over time and conducted interviews with 6,000 married men since 1979. "I'm going to behave myself because I'm committed to this relationship," is how Nock describes it.Because people have left the farm, and because women have achieved financial parity, married people need new reasons to stay together."I have studied what people imagine would happen to them if their marriage were to end," says Nock.

Another disadvantage is salary; dollar for dollar, jobs simply do not pay as well here as they do elsewhere.

The idea sounds wild but it’s not that much unlike arranged marriages. Still, after today, I’m giving the network and their experts the side eye. In a video, where the experts discuss and decide which men to cast for the show, one of the experts said:“Many of our African American men have no interest in marrying an African American woman.